To be able to accept myself and others and life as it is
To actively explore new and exciting experiences
To stand up for my rights and needs while respecting others
To be authentic, genuine, and true to myself
To take care of and nurture others and myself
To feel and act on concern for others and myself
To have a sense of belonging and connection with others
To make a positive contribution to others
To be cooperative and work well with others
To be brave and courageous in the face of fear
To be creative and express myself in novel ways
To be curious, open, and eager to explore and learn
To reliably meet obligations and responsibilities
To encourage and support others and myself
To have a life that is full of excitement and stimulation
To be physically fit and healthy
To be adaptable and open to new experiences
To be forgiving of myself and others
To be free and independent and support liberty
To be friendly and approachable
To have fun and a sense of humour
To generously share what I have with others
To be appreciative of others, myself, and my life
To be modest about my abilities and achievements
To be industrious and work hard
To behave in an ethical and honest manner
To have close and intimate relationships with others
To treat myself and others fairly and uphold justice
To be kind and considerate to others and myself
To seek knowledge and understanding
To be loving and affectionate towards others
To be competent and masterful in my pursuits
To be present and mindful in the here and now
To be moderate and balanced in all things
To be open-minded and receptive to new ideas
To have an orderly and organised life
To be patient and tolerant with myself and others
To persevere in the face of setbacks
To be rational and logical in my thinking
To be responsible and accountable for my actions
To feel safe and secure in my life
To have control over my own impulses and actions
To grow and develop as a person
To experience and enjoy the pleasures of the senses
To explore or express my sexuality
To be skillful and competent in my abilities
To find deep meaning in something larger than myself
To be a good steward of the resources I have been given
To be supportive of others and myself
To be considerate of others and myself
To respect and follow tradition
To have a peaceful and tranquil life
To be trustworthy and reliable
To have wisdom and insight
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Created by Registered Psychologist, Goldie Hamilton, in December 2025. This resource was inspired by 'The Happiness Trap: Values, Goals & Barriers Cards' by Russ Harris.
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